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Before The Pumpkins: The Day Two Women Defied Rome

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In the last post, we looked at Polycarp — a faithful bishop who faced the flames rather than deny his Lord. His courage in the face of certain death became a rallying light for generations of believers after him. But his story is only one among many in the long line of the cloud of witnesses who ran the race before us (Hebrews 12:1). Today, we step forward a few decades to another account of extraordinary faith — that of two women, Perpetua and Felicity.

Perpetua left an account of her own martyrdom (technically a Passion) which is considered historically reliable. What makes it extraordinary is that Perpetua herself wrote a portion of it in Latin before her death, making it one of the earliest known writings by a Christian woman! It was then continued by another who witnessed the events once she entered the arena.

The Setting: Carthage, AD 203

Our story takes us to North Africa during the reign of Emperor Septimius Severus. Christianity was still seen as a threat to the Roman order, and anyone refusing to sacrifice to the emperor’s image could be imprisoned or executed. Among the arrested were a small group of catechumens (new believers preparing for baptism) including a young noblewoman named Vibia Perpetua and her servant, Felicity.

Perpetua was only twenty-two years old and the mother of an infant son. Her father, a pagan, begged her to renounce the faith and save her life, but she would not. In her prison diary — one of the earliest surviving Christian texts written by a woman — she records their suffering and her unshakable resolve and faith. After she was arrested with her companions, she wrote of a moment when her father came and tried to persuade her to sacrifice to the Emperor and deny her faith:

When my father, out of love for me, tried to turn me from my faith, I said to him: ‘Father, do you see this vessel here — a water pot or whatever it may be? Can it be called by any other name than what it is?’ He answered, ‘No.’ Then I said to him, ‘So too I cannot call myself anything other than what I am — a Christian.’

A few days after this they were all baptised while imprisoned under house arrest awaiting their trial before being moved to the more restrictive Roman cells once they were formally condemned to die by wild beasts. After her baptism, the Spirit spoke to Perpetua and told her that she must “pray for nothing else after that water save only endurance of the flesh”.

Perpetua and Felicity await their fate in the Roman prison

The prison was dark, so dark she said she had “never known such darkness”, plus it was hot and crowded, the soldiers mistreated them all and she was trying to care for her child! Thankfully, later on a couple of deacons, Tertius and Pomponius, who were ministering to them managed to somehow pay the Romans to allow Perpetua and Felicity some respite in a better part of the prison where the child could be better fed and later handed off into the care of Perpetua’s mother. 

Dreams of Victory

While in prison, Perpetua received a series of visions that strengthened her for what lay ahead. In one, she saw a golden ladder reaching up to heaven, guarded by a fierce serpent below, and sharp iron spikes along either side. Only those who stepped on the serpent’s head and climbed the ladder could enter. She interpreted this as her coming trial — the climb of faith through suffering to eternal life, realising that God wasn’t going to deliver her from this trial, but that it should be her passion (i.e. her death). It’s an image of triumph through endurance that echoes Christ’s own words: “Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life” (Revelation 2:10).

Felicity’s story is just as moving. She was heavily pregnant at eight months when arrested and gave birth in prison mere days before the execution. Roman law forbade torment of a pregnant woman, so she would have stayed in prison until the birth. When she cried out in labour, one of the guards mocked her, saying, “If you suffer so much now, what will you do when you face the beasts?” She calmly replied, “Now it is I who suffer; but then there will be another in me who will suffer for me, because I will be suffering for Him”. She gave birth to a daughter who was immediately adopted and raised by one of the Christian women who came to support her in her trials.

The Arena

When the day came, the women were led to the amphitheatre. The crowd roared as if for sport, but heaven was watching for witness. Perpetua had dreamt of a golden ladder leading to paradise, guarded by a dragon below and angels above. She had already seen her victory. So, she and Felicity entered the arena hand in hand, clothed in faith rather than fear.

The account tell us they faced a wild cow chosen, perhaps, to mock their womanhood and maternal instincts as it was noted that this was entirely against the usual custom. The animals charged — the wild cow meant to humiliate them gored and trampled, yet still they rose. Bloodied but unbroken, they embraced one another and offered the kiss of peace, sealing their testimony in love. When the beasts failed to kill them, the guards sent in the sword. The chronicler records the moment with awe:

She guided the trembling hand of the young gladiator to her own throat. It was as though such a woman, feared by the impure spirit, could not be slain unless she herself willed it.

And so the day two women defied Rome became a day heaven rejoiced. It’s also noted that through Perpetua, Felicity, and their fellow companion’s victory and grace in martyrdom, a few of the soldiers came to faith because of their example. The way they all faced death had a big impact on everyone watching.

Perpetua and Felicity stood not in isolation, but among that great cloud of witnesses of which Hebrews speaks, those who “ran with perseverance the race set before them”. They remind us that courage is not the absence of fear, but the presence of faith. Their story crosses the centuries to speak to us still today with all relevance that no worldly power, no pain, no chain, can silence the voice that says, I am a Christian.

Reflection

You can’t read their story and not feel moved by it. Their sense of conviction and faith is a testimony to the power and strength of God dwelling in believers, and a witness to us today that no matter what we face, if we rely on God and trust in him during those times, he will give us the strength to endure.

There’s no bitterness in their testimony, only trust. Their faith was not about defiance but devotion. The quiet, immovable conviction that Christ is worth everything, even life itself.

Their story reminds us that the Church was built not on force, but on faith; not on conquest, but on witness. “The gates of Hades shall not overcome it” as Jesus taught (Matt 16:18). These women stood firm, not as warriors or rulers, but as mothers, daughters, and servants whose hope burned brighter than whatever devices the devil used to end their lives. They remind us that the cloud of witnesses includes every kind of believer — rich and poor, male and female, young and old — all joined by the same unshakable confession: “Jesus is Lord”.

As we remember them today, may we find courage for our own smaller trials, and be inspired by those who stood on the sand of the arena before us: standing on the shoulders of giants, and walking in the steps of Christ, who first endured the


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